Subtle & Playful:
- Banter: Light, playful conversation, often with witty remarks and gentle teasing. "Their witty banter made everyone laugh."
- Teasing: A playful way of poking fun, often with a flirty undertone. "He teased her about her new haircut, but she could tell he liked it."
- Compliments: A sincere expression of admiration. "She complimented his taste in music." (Be careful – too many can seem insincere.)
- Eye contact: Holding someone's gaze a little longer than usual can be a subtle sign of interest. "Their eyes met across the room."
- Smiling: A genuine smile can be very inviting. "He gave her a warm, genuine smile."
- Body language: Subtle cues like leaning in, mirroring someone's posture, or light touches on the arm can indicate attraction. "He leaned in closer as she spoke."
- Playful nicknames: Using a lighthearted nickname (if appropriate for the context) can create a sense of intimacy. (Use with caution, and only if the other person seems receptive).
- "Accidental" touches: A light brush against someone's arm or shoulder (again, use with caution and good judgment). This is a very subtle and potentially risky move, so gauge the situation carefully.
- Subtle hints: Suggesting shared interests or experiences. "I love that band too! We should go to a concert sometime."
More Overt:
- Flattery: Excessive or insincere compliments. "He showered her with flattery." (Can be a turn-off if it seems disingenuous.)
- Pick-up lines: Pre-written lines intended to initiate a conversation. These can be cheesy but sometimes effective if used with humor.
- Direct compliments: More explicit expressions of admiration. "You look stunning tonight."
- Asking someone out: A clear and direct way of expressing interest. "I'd love to take you out for dinner sometime."
- Expressing interest: Clearly stating your feelings. "I've really enjoyed getting to know you."
Words related to the experience of flirting:
- Chemistry: A feeling of connection and attraction between two people. "They had undeniable chemistry."
- Spark: A feeling of excitement and attraction. "There was a definite spark between them."
- Attraction: A feeling of being drawn to someone. "I felt an immediate attraction to her."
- Crush: A brief but intense infatuation. "I had a huge crush on him in high school."
Important Considerations:
- Context: The appropriateness of flirting vocabulary depends heavily on the situation. What's acceptable in a bar might not be in a professional setting.
- Consent: Flirting should always be consensual. Pay attention to the other person's body language and reactions. If they seem uncomfortable, back off.
- Culture: Flirting norms vary across cultures. Researching cultural differences can help you avoid misunderstandings.
- Sincerity: While playful teasing can be fun, genuine interest is key to successful flirting.

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